THE SOFTENING
A women’s retreat held in grounded masculine containment.
April 9 - 12 · Wellingrove, NSW
Off grid private land · Small, intimate field
Apply for This Retreat
An application accompanies all bookings to ensure alignment and containment.
This retreat stands complete on its own terms.
This is not an escape.
It is a return.
The Softening exists for women who no longer need to prove strength, manage the room, or perform capability.
What happens here is not offered as comfort. It is held as truth.
This is not threshold work and does not function as a gate into private immersions.
Structure stands.
Containment holds.
You meet yourself inside it.
No pushing. No fixing. No forcing.
Softness arrives only when control dissolves. That cannot be given.
THE CONTAINER
GROUNDED STRUCTURE | FEMININE FLOW | CLINICAL CONTAINMENT
Grounded Masculine Containment
Structure, pacing, rhythm, set and held. Nothing to manage.
Feminine Facilitation
Somatic guidance through silence, depth, awareness.
Clinical Safety Present
Regulation available if required. Never performed.
The structure holds, you hold yourself within it.
ENTRY REQUIRES
• Willingness to meet silence without filling it
• Capacity to self regulate within structure
• Respect for pace, space and containment
• Understanding that no one here will rescue or fix you
This is not therapy. Not performance. Not emotional theatre.
It is a field of presence. Presence reveals what is already here.
This retreat does not replace personal decision making or function as a point of no return.
IF YOU ENTER
If you enter, you accept responsibility for your experience within a facilitated, contained retreat.
You will not be pushed, persuaded, or escalated.
You will be supported within clear structure and boundaries.
This container is time bound and complete.
You are free to enter or not without implication.
THE LAND
44 acres of private off grid land in Wellingrove, NSW.
Private shared accommodation.
Fire. Quiet. Nourishment. Simple organic food. Rest that is real.
No luxury. No spectacle. Just land, rhythm, and breath.
THE TEAM
BRENDAN
Structure · Containment · Pace
Grounded masculine structure
Holding the framework, rhythm, boundary, and structural integrity of the container.
EMILY
Attunement · Design · Symbolics
Energetic interpreter
Reading frequency, human design, and geometric resonance within the space.
LEA
Safety · Synthesis · Restoration
Clinical anchor
Integrating psychology and energetic regulation for balance and safety.
No hierarchy. No performance.
Each brings a distinct rhythm, initiation, generation and guidance,
forming one coherent field.
Each holds their post.
THE RHYTHM
A light structure with space for organic rhythm.
Breathwork. Stillness. Nature. Ceremony. Fire. Integration.
Your body leads. The field responds.
THE EXCHANGE
$2,222 AUD
Entry by application to ensure alignment, safety, and containment.
Payment does not confirm access.
Applications are reviewed for fit, not readiness.
If alignment is absent, payment is returned.
This retreat does not function as threshold work.
If your body already knows, you won’t need convincing.
If you still need more information, this is not the right moment.
No one will hold your hand here.
You decide if you are ready to enter.
Softness is not created here.
It is allowed when effort releases.
